That Unconditional Love...
It is often said you cant make someone love you. The truth is there are different ways to love. We have all said we give it, unconditional love. What is that anyways? Is it the promise to love through it all? Good, bad and ugly? Maybe it just means we love them when it is good. What happens when the bad hits? Do we simply hold our love over their head like a ticking time bomb? Knowing that any minute we can pull it away like some prize they almost wont at a carnival. Some people dream of that fairy tale love, true love. I mean isn't that what they teach us growing up? Love songs feed it to us, movies sell it, and books romanticize it. Reality is a whole new ballgame and the truth is most of us don't get the fairy tale. What we get is contingent love. Something that is given with the idea that it will be there through it all, but truth is it can be taken away just as easily as it is given. Like that ticking time bomb, BOOM! My love, is very different. When I love I put my he...