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Priority or an Option...

In everyday life we all have things that we consider a priority. For many it is our family, our children, friendships, our careers, our lives, our significant other... Other things are just options, what to wear, where to go, what to eat, gym or no gym, our significant other. What determines the difference between an option and a priority? Can you really make someone else a priority when you are just their option? I am the first to admit I am terrified of relationships. Any moment I can see a true good man coming my way I jump. I jump fast and quickly, like as if the titanic were sinking. Please don't throw me a life preserver I would rather drown. My best friend says it is because I am always worried about who I am taking care of in my life. The friends who I don't want to let go of, and some relationships would force that. The truth is probably more dark and deep seeded than just that.  Maybe it is the fear of being hurt, disappointed, or making sacrifices for someone...